The flat I live in, has five tenants.....recently, the all India radio of my house ,my domestic helpwho is The Informer of this locality, gave me the story of one past inhabitant of the flat infront of mine.......everyday she unfolds many misteries.....to add to that, this is the newer one.......one lady with husband ,a daughter,and MIL used to live there.....after few months the man was not to be seen.....but many other people used to visit her.....hearing this I was kind of scared ,anticipating what she was upto......and naturally she ended up calling that lady a BAD LADY....when asked why, she told many men used to come even one of the neighbour also....I believed at first as 'bade bade sheheron me aisi choti choti baten toh hoti rahti hai.....'.I was also advised not to talk with any neighbours......hahaha..She even told that without giving 6 months rent that lady fled.....Poor Mala, what she will do .....cinema tickets are so costly nowadays that they make cinema out of their surroundings................
Now I was thinking about this matter very seriously.When a lady is on her own ...people start thinking wrong about her.....which is very easy to say.....how many would have tried to peep into her heart ,tried to know where her husband had gone?......If she had been a wrong kind of woman then she must have been rich enough to give rent....and the neighbour might have been a generous man to extend a helping hand to her.....the other visitors might have been her relatives....who were performing their duty to avoid the situation like 'kal koi baat nahi honi chahiye ki hum dekne tak nahi gaye' ...
The thing is, why cant we think in a positive way.......?.Why to relish someone's distress,make gossips,make scandals.......To me she was a mother of a child,had a mil to look after,had to carry on life sustenance without husband and money......I can feel her heart the moment she left stealthily without paying the rent......how insulting it might have been for her......
AND We? we pass judgements.abuse and make fun of.....
If not all these ,if at all she had been on a wrong path to earn money for bread and butter for the family.....what wrong had she done?She never begged,stole,manipulated.decieved....she had utilised herself,her biggest possession.....HER SELF RESPECT.........
Now I was thinking about this matter very seriously.When a lady is on her own ...people start thinking wrong about her.....which is very easy to say.....how many would have tried to peep into her heart ,tried to know where her husband had gone?......If she had been a wrong kind of woman then she must have been rich enough to give rent....and the neighbour might have been a generous man to extend a helping hand to her.....the other visitors might have been her relatives....who were performing their duty to avoid the situation like 'kal koi baat nahi honi chahiye ki hum dekne tak nahi gaye' ...
The thing is, why cant we think in a positive way.......?.Why to relish someone's distress,make gossips,make scandals.......To me she was a mother of a child,had a mil to look after,had to carry on life sustenance without husband and money......I can feel her heart the moment she left stealthily without paying the rent......how insulting it might have been for her......
AND We? we pass judgements.abuse and make fun of.....
If not all these ,if at all she had been on a wrong path to earn money for bread and butter for the family.....what wrong had she done?She never begged,stole,manipulated.decieved....she had utilised herself,her biggest possession.....HER SELF RESPECT.........
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A very positive way of looking at it, continue to do the same when it comes to other aspects of your life. Keep writing..
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